Do You Trust Your Mediator? If Not, Get a New Mediator
As important and elusive as trust may be between the parties in a mediation, it is even more important that it exist between the parties and the mediator. Because without trust, there is little chance a party will be willing to compromise their hard fought and well defended position.
To ensure that trust, what should you look for when considering a possible mediator? A short list should include the following: (1) a genuine interest in helping your client; (2) a positive demeanor; (3) integrity with the process; (4) and demonstrated competence. So let’s talk about each of these in the context of mediation...